Stuff You Will Hate

Hey so I just graduated high school and I'm not sure if I want to go to college or recording school. I really care about music and always buying new recording stuff and reading about recording. My parents say that is not a safe career and I should get a normal job. They say music is not real work. I want to make them proud but I want to be happy with what my life will become. What should I do try and find a safe career or defy my family and take a chance with music. What would you do?

Fri, 24 May 2013 19:11:08 -0400

Heres something my buddy eyal wrote about this exact subject, check it out— backed hard:
http://www.metalsucks.net/2012/11/08/jumping-darkness-parade-with-eyal-levi-should-you-go-to-recording-school/

Fuckin love this song

Fri, 24 May 2013 16:12:01 -0400

Fuckin love this song

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Fri, 24 May 2013 15:49:03 -0400

In the past I was kind of an asshole to people who were nice to me, and not many people were cos I was a massive aspie. Now everythings much better since SYWH. I saw an ex gf on fb, and I treated her like such shit and I feel like a total asshole and have crushing guilt atm. Is it wrong to message her to say sorry I was a dick a few years back? i've also got a waifu now, and we've been together for nearly 4 years, and I doubt she'd find me messaging an ex cool.

Fri, 24 May 2013 13:40:00 -0400

Yeah, just leave it alone. I’ve thought about doing the same thing before, but I realized that she doesn’t really give a fuck about me anymore (for good reason) so it would just be weird and she’d probably just be like “uhhhh ok thanks?” and wish it never happened. Plus yeah, your waifu would definitely not be stoked on it.

The important thing is that you realize your mistakes— not enough people are able to do that! Don’t sweat the past, just focus on not repeating your mistakes, and being the best guy you can for your current waifu.

sarge i want to keep this short to avoid being overly gushy. your life advice posts have played a huge part in helping me go from massively overweight hermit to a healthier social bro. i've lost 90lbs so far and its just the best. to any husky bros that want to lose weight, start your journey asap as the all round posi in all aspects of life you'll benefit from can't even be measured. <3 you sarge like a big bro, fuck the cunts trying to get you down with their bullshit STAY POSI!

Fri, 24 May 2013 13:01:20 -0400

damn dude, 90 lbs is amazing— congrats!! you should be really fucking proud of yourself!

"If you decide to look like a fool, prepare to be treated like fool" - I dont know who said that or if im paraphrasing but that is solid advice imo

Fri, 24 May 2013 12:56:47 -0400

whenever I see people say "u shouldn't judge others by their appearance" I always lol

Fri, 24 May 2013 12:18:47 -0400

U shouldn’t judge people by their appearance, actions, thoughts or anything else!! Everyone is the same and you can never judge anyone ever for anything or you’re racist!

Oh.

Fri, 24 May 2013 09:59:47 -0400

Oh.

Hey Sarge I just moved to a new city where i have no friends. I want to go to shows and meet new people but I am kinda shy and always had trouble interacting with strangers. I was thinking maybe join a band and play shows to give me some confidence to talky to people. Do you think this is wise or should I try something else?

Fri, 24 May 2013 05:58:13 -0400

Yeah, that could work! Ive heard a lot of people say that gave them a lot of confidence and youll definitely meet people that way

fabfatfemme: Friendly reminder that someone else does not have to justify your problems for them to...

Fri, 24 May 2013 01:54:21 -0400

fabfatfemme:

Friendly reminder that someone else does not have to justify your problems for them to be problems.

If it negatively affects you and makes you unhappy its a problem.

Don’t let other people tell you that your problems aren’t valid because “people have it worse off than you”.

You are allowed to be sad.

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Fri, 24 May 2013 01:27:14 -0400

Hey sarge, I've been reconnecting with an old friend. Today I texted her and she got a bf recently so I guess she doesn't want him to know we're friends. She apologized for not being able to talk right now but I told her its cool and I understand how he'd feel. Is that a good way to handle the situation?

Fri, 24 May 2013 00:20:14 -0400

Totally- you didnt do anything wrong. Probably best not to text her again tho, if you were in his shoes you wouldnt like it ya know?

sarge, quick question. one of my dudes is dating a girl who is incredibly unstable and has (vaginal and oral) herpes. he's p unsure about the whole thing himself but whenever i try to give good reasons for him to next her, he starts defending her, only to (once again) complain and whine about her the next day. if she was just a mess, i'd leave him be but herpes is kinda serious territory. apart from literally shaking sense into him, there's not much i can do right?

Thu, 23 May 2013 23:44:41 -0400

Nope, not really. I mean, think about it: if he’s gone this far, he is obviously retarded/in extreme denial/etc. Give it one more shot though— maybe remind him that if he gets herpes, that shit is PERMANENT and he’s gonna have to explain it to every single girl he even wants to kiss for the rest of his life.

Herpes is scary shit, dudes— and there are way way more girls out there with the herp than you probably think. Be careful when fucking around with dirty girls!!

orlandobloomers: it was a busy day

Thu, 23 May 2013 23:05:08 -0400

orlandobloomers:

it was a busy day

Getting back on the @unstoppablekillingmachinegrind— feels...

Thu, 23 May 2013 20:56:55 -0400

Getting back on the @unstoppablekillingmachinegrind— feels good!!

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Thu, 23 May 2013 20:46:03 -0400

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Thu, 23 May 2013 20:18:32 -0400

I regularly start working towards getting my shit together and I'm extremely motivated, but I some how loose that mindset after a little bit. How do I keep that mindset going?

Thu, 23 May 2013 20:09:24 -0400

You’re going to have your ups and downs— nobody can be at 100% all day, every day and that’s OK. You’ll have peaks and valleys- some days you might be at 100%, others you might be at 50%.

Just do SOMETHING every day- as long as you’re moving forward, you’re good! Don’t let yourself stall out.

bxsedlxrd: Thank You Based God for all of your knowledge!

Thu, 23 May 2013 19:51:39 -0400

bxsedlxrd:

Thank You Based God for all of your knowledge!

farewell-kingdom: Maico Akiba - SEKAI

Thu, 23 May 2013 19:45:37 -0400

farewell-kingdom:

Maico Akiba - SEKAI