Stuff You Will Hate

Anonymous asked: if you could give one piece of advice to guys regarding girls, what would it be?

stop thinking so hard about it and just be a normal, chill person thats enjoyable to be around

Anonymous asked: Do young dudes ever add you/bug you/meet up with you IRL, thinking you're gonna be a 24-hour fun box, but then hit the realisation that you have the same responsibilities as every other near-on middle aged dude?

If people think I’m like some super entertaining person IRL they will be very very sorely mistaken haha. I am pretty quiet and mostly like talking about business/entrepreneurship, kids, etc.

That said, most of my best friends are 22-25 and they’re pretty much in the same place as me— its not about age as much as it is where your head is at, you know? Plenty of 30 year olds spend their free time thinking about what bar to go to this weekend, and plenty of 22 year olds think about the same shit I do.

But yeah… I’m super low key IRL so don’t expect a fuckin comedy show because that’s definitely not me haha.

Anonymous asked: Hey just curious what is A) your favorite hardcore band B) favorite scene band C) what used to be your favorite metal band d) favorite pop artist E) favorite rapper f) all around favorite artist?

A-F: taylor swift

Anonymous asked: For the dude with the depression meds problem: ask your doctor about a different kind of medicine. If you're on meds it's because there is a chemical imbalance in your brain, and the medicine is meant to balance that out. There isn't one single chemical that can cause your depression so you should ask to try a medicine that treats for a different imbalance than the one he started you on because giving you excess of one chemical won't help if your problem he lack of a different one.

^ what i was trying to say

Anonymous asked: Sarge I recently recognized my depression and went to get help. They gave me anti depressants and it only made it worse It was so hard to even breath. They seemed to back fire on me. So now I don't take the pills and I still feel better but still depressed. Any ideas on what I should do now that pills failed me?

Go back to the doctor! There are almost always multiple options for medication, so they can try another one that will hopefully work better.

Anonymous asked: hi d, i'm not asking this in a bitchy way i'm legitimately curious: does linh ever feel smothered by all of your attention? if my guy left all those comments on my pictures and constantly said i love you baby youre so beautiful etc etc in a public forum i would feel overwhelmed and turned off. those sweet nothings are lovely in private, but when projected to the world on such a persistent basis they seem to lose meaning a bit and just become too much too often. just my POV, maybe i'm the rarity?

well i can’t speak for her so I asked her, and here is her answer:

my experience with numerous guys was that basically they kept me a secret or kept our relationship on the dl. I don’t ask guys to proclaim his love for me on internet forums but i would rather have that than be kept a secret as if he was ashamed of me or something. If he felt like he HAD to proclaim those things in order for me to see it, that’s silly. He should be genuine no matter what, but i don’t mind it at all when you do it.

Anonymous asked: yo d, i actually got diagnosed with aspergers when i was a wee 'un about 3 years old. i'm 22 now & i really had to strive to develop myself as a person in order to fit in with normal society. it was fuckin hard when i had everyone singling me out just because of a 'label' esp. when the reality is we all have problems and issues. so IMNs bitching about music and/or excusing their behaviour as "I HAVE ASPERGERS" is really pathetic as life is about learning + self-development, not going backwards.

To be clear, when I make fun of “aspies,” I am not actually referring to people with aspergers. First of all, people with actual aspergers are a little off but I don’t really find them annoying at all, they usually just keep to themselves and jam on whatever it is that they’re into (there’s always something that they’re super focused on).

What annoys the fuck out of me are people who are just socially retarded and ruin the fun for everybody else with their opinionated negative bullshit, and give actual Aspergers people a bad name with their fucking self-diagnosed Aspergers.

No, you don’t have Aspergers, you’re just a weird, unlikable, asshole who won’t shut the fuck up.

Anonymous asked: Dang serge I hope you are joking when you say we should kill people who are mentally ill.

You should always take everything I say 10000% seriously there is no chance I am kidding about it. Especially since I take anti-depressants, which means I have mental health problems myself.